Thomas "Tommy" E. Gove Jr

Thomas E. Gove Jr. 51 of Marlborough died unexpectedly at his home on Wednesday, February 11, 2026.

Tommy was born in Framingham, MA, the son of the late Thomas E. Gove Sr. and Nancy (Mellen) DeSiata. He graduated from Ashland High School and owned Liquid Irrigation in Marlborough for several years.

Tommy is survived by his 2 daughters, Arianna Gove and her fiancé, Shane MacQuarrie, Skylar Gove all of Mendon, MA, his son Zachary Paglione of Grafton, MA, his mother and stepfather, Nancy DeSiata and her husband Dennis of FL, 2 stepbrothers, Dennis DeSiata of Ashland and Sean DeSiata of Worcester as well as several Aunts, Uncles, Nieces, Nephews, extended family and friends.

Tommy had a way of making people feel welcome, valued, and like family. He was the kind of person whose presence lit up a room and whose friendships lasted a lifetime.

Tommy found joy in the things he loved most such as his days at Roller Kingdom, cheering passionately for his beloved New England patriots, and spending time with the people who meant everything to him. He dedicated many years to Metrowest Irrigation, where he built not only a career but lasting friendships and respect from those who worked beside him. He continued his love for his career by starting his own company, Liquid Irrigation, in 2018.

He also found peace and happiness outdoors, spending countless hours planting and caring for flowers. Those quiet moments reflected Tommy’s gentle and thoughtful spirit.

Above all else, Tommy’s greatest love was his children. He was incredibly proud to be their father, and his love for them was unconditional and unwavering. The memories he created, the laughter he shared, and the love he gave so freely will live on through them and everyone whose life he touched.

Tommy will be deeply missed, forever loved, and never forgotten. His spirit, kindness, and larger-than-life heart will remain in the memories of all who were lucky enough to know him.

Visitation will be held on Wednesday, February 18, from 5-7 pm in the Short & Rowe Funeral Home, 95 W. Main St., Marlborough, MA

A Funeral Mass will be Celebrated on Thursday, February 19, at 11 am in Immaculate Conception Church, 11 Prospect St., Marlborough, MA.

Following cremation burial will be in Wildwood Cemetery, Ashland, MA at a later date.

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