Diane M. (Ostby) Parmenter

Diane M. Parmenter, 80, of Marlborough, passed away peacefully at her home on Thursday, March 20, 2025, surrounded by her loving family.

Born in Norwood, MA, Diane was the cherished daughter of the late Olaf and Muriel (Whitaker) Ostby.

A dedicated housekeeper for much of her life, Diane’s true passion was her family, who meant everything to her. She was a devoted wife to her husband of 45 years, William “Bill” Parmenter, whom she met while snowmobiling. They also loved camping and of course their family cookouts—these shared adventures sparked a lifetime of love and partnership.

Diane was the proud mother of five children: Gary Wilcox of Vail, AZ; Dean Parmenter of Dudley, MA; Scott Parmenter and his wife Liz of Auburn, MA; Sandra Wilcox LeDuc of Worcester, MA; and Danielle Harland and her husband Donnie of Marlborough, MA.

She found immense joy in the time spent with her grandchildren: Jacob, Jesse, Alise, Shania, Paul, Alexis, Johnny, Matthew, Charlie, Andrew, Dakota, Mason, and Aiden, as well as her great-grandchildren, Ezra and Stevie J. Her love and laughter will forever live in their hearts.

Love will forever be cherished with her sister, Susan Creighton of North Carolina, along with many nieces, nephews, extended family members, and dear friends.

She is now reunited with her siblings, Richard Ostby, Karen Mobley, Bette Burrill, and Pamela Barnett, who predeceased her. Diane’s legacy of love, devotion, and family will continue to inspire all those who were fortunate enough to know her.

In keeping with her wishes, services for Diane are private.

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